Tips and Techniques to Make Your Visit More Comfortable at the Dentist

By Dr. Even Olson

Feel Safe and Supported at a Dentist Near You

If visiting the dentist makes you feel uneasy, you’re not alone. Dental anxiety is incredibly common, but compassionate, judgment-free care is available near you. Our Kalispell dental team is here to help you feel relaxed and in control, whether you’re coming in for a routine cleaning or a more involved procedure. We take the time to listen, explain, and support you through every step of your visit.

If you’ve been putting off dental care due to fear or discomfort, now is the time to reconnect with a provider who puts your comfort first. Call (406) 393-8877 to schedule your visit today and discover calm, reassuring dental care near you, whether you’re from Kalispell or our surrounding communities of Whitefish or Columbia Falls.

What Causes Dental Anxiety?

A variety of factors can trigger dental anxiety, and each person’s experience is unique. Some individuals fear pain based on outdated ideas about dental procedures or personal memories of discomfort. Others may have had negative past experiences—perhaps with a provider who lacked sensitivity or didn’t explain what was happening. The feeling of losing control while lying in the chair, unable to see or speak freely, can also heighten fear.

For some, embarrassment about the condition of their teeth or concerns about judgment contribute to avoidance. In addition, sensory sensitivities to the sounds of dental tools, the smell of antiseptics, or the brightness of overhead lights can create a strong emotional reaction. Understanding what contributes to your anxiety is the first step toward overcoming it.

Signs You Might Have Dental Anxiety

Dental anxiety presents differently for everyone. If you’re unsure whether your discomfort qualifies as anxiety, consider these common signs:

  • Physical symptoms such as sweating, rapid heartbeat, or nausea before or during a visitTrouble sleeping the night before a dental appointment
  • Postponing or canceling dental visits without clear reasons
  • Feeling panicked or tearful when entering the office or sitting in the dental chair

If any of these sound familiar, you’re not alone—and there are ways to take control.

Communication Is Key

Open communication is one of the most effective tools for reducing dental anxiety. Let your dentist know how you’re feeling—dentists are trained to work with anxious patients and appreciate your honesty.

Consider asking:

  • What should I expect during the procedure?
  • Are there any ways to pause the appointment if I get uncomfortable?
  • What can be done to reduce discomfort or anxiety?

A compassionate dental team will be happy to walk you through the process and make adjustments to help you feel more secure.

Tips to Ease Anxiety Before Your Kalispell Dental Appointment

Preparing ahead of time can make a big difference. Try these simple but effective techniques to calm your nerves:

  • Practice deep breathing or meditation – Slow, intentional breathing can calm your nervous system and reduce feelings of panic. Try spending a few minutes each day practicing deep breaths or using a meditation app designed for stress reduction.
  • Bring a friend or loved one – Having someone you trust accompany you, even if they just wait in the lobby, can help you feel more supported and less alone during your visit.
  • Use headphones for music or audiobooks – Listening to a favorite playlist, podcast, or audiobook can serve as a welcome distraction, helping to mask unpleasant sounds and keep your mind focused on something familiar.
  • Schedule morning appointments – If your anxiety tends to build throughout the day, booking an early appointment can help you avoid prolonged anticipation and get it out of the way sooner.
  • Avoid caffeine – Drinks like coffee and energy beverages can increase your heart rate and heighten feelings of nervousness. Opt for water or a calming tea instead of the day of your visit.

Small changes in your routine can help you arrive at your appointment feeling more grounded.

In-Office Techniques to Stay Comfortable

Modern dental offices offer many options to help patients feel more at ease during treatment. These can include:

  • Distractions during treatment – Ask if your dental office provides TVs, headphones, or even virtual reality glasses to help take your mind off the procedure.
  • Comfort amenities – Items like weighted blankets, neck pillows, warm towels, and aromatherapy can help create a soothing environment and make the dental chair feel less clinical.Establish hand signals – Before the appointment begins, agree on a signal (like raising your hand) to let your dentist know when you need to pause or take a break, which gives you a sense of control.
  • Try sedation options – For more intense anxiety, discuss sedation dentistry with your provider. Options such as nitrous oxide (laughing gas), oral sedatives, or IV sedation can help you remain calm and comfortable throughout the procedure.

Don’t hesitate to ask your provider which comfort options are available.

Building Trust Through Regular Visits

Skipping dental care can allow anxiety to grow and oral health issues to worsen. Establishing a pattern of routine visits—even short, non-invasive ones—can help build familiarity and trust with your dental team. Over time, this consistency can reduce fear and help you feel more in control of your oral health journey.

Remember: you don’t have to go through it all at once. A gentle, step-by-step approach works best for long-term comfort.

When to Seek Professional Help

If your dental anxiety becomes intense or prevents you from seeking any care at all, it might be time to get support beyond the dental chair. Mental health professionals can help you manage anxiety through:

  • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
  • Relaxation training and coping strategiesSupport groups for individuals with medically related anxiety

Your well-being matters, and seeking help is a sign of strength, not weakness.

A Safe, Caring Space for Dental Patients from Kalispell

No one should have to suffer through dental anxiety alone. Whether you’re in Kalispell, Whitefish, or Columbia Falls, compassionate care is just a phone call away. Our Kalispell dentist understands what it means to feel nervous about a visit, and we’re here to help you feel heard, supported, and safe every step of the way. Don’t let fear keep you from the healthy smile you deserve. Call us today at (406) 393-8877 to take the first step toward a calmer, more comfortable dental experience.

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Dr. Evan Olson, D. ABDSM, followed in his father’s footsteps and became a dentist. He completed his degree in Cell Biology and Neuroscience at Montana State University in Bozeman and then attended The University of Iowa College of Dentistry. Dr. Olson then practiced in a Community Health setting for five years treating all types of dental emergencies. He then ran a private practice in Central Oregon for seven years before moving back to Montana to take over Alpine Family Dental.

Dr. Olson was recently named a Diplomate of the American Board of Dental Sleep Medicine, which signifies extensive training and knowledge in treating Obstructive Sleep Apnea and snoring. He is a Fellow of The Implant Pathway Surgical Program, a Member of the American Academy of Implant Dentistry and Academy of General Dentistry, and a Mentor for the CEREC Doctors training program. He has completed significant continuing education in many areas of dentistry including with the American Academy of Dental Sleep Medicine Mastery Program, training on dental implants at Implant Pathway, Misch Institute, and Pikos Institute, an internship on root canals at the University of Iowa, cosmetic dentistry courses at CDOCS and Spear Education, and further studies on infant frenectomy and CAD/CAM techniques.

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Dr. Autumn Chapman received her degree in physiology from the University of Wyoming and her Doctorate of Dental Surgery from the University of Nebraska Medical Center College of Dentistry. She worked alongside her grandfather, Dr. Gerald Olson, in Havre, MT, before moving to Flathead Valley. Dr Chapman has been able to focus on education and training in facial esthetics and cosmetic dentistry. She has Training in orthodontics using suresmile clear aligners with CDOCs in Scottsdale and Training in Botox and filler with the american academy of facial esthetics.

Dr. Greg Eller obtained his degree in Aeronautical Maintenance and spent six years as a Skydiving Instructor. He then attended the University of Oregon where he graduated Summa Cum Laude in Pre-Medicine and the Oregon Health Sciences University Dental School. He is a member of the American Dental Association and Montana Dental Association and has IV moderate sedation training. After 14 years at Alpine Family Dental, Dr. Eller has now transitioned out of full-time practice.

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